gatherYour Mind
A psychology-backed read on how you communicate. Your Mind maps your personality, attachment style, and relationship dynamics from your iMessage history—grounded in established personality science.
What Your Mind measures:
- → Your attachment style (Bowlby, Ainsworth)
- → Your conflict resolution style (Thomas-Kilmann)
- → Your sense of humor and communication playfulness
- → Your Big Five personality traits (McCrae & Costa, OCEAN model)
- → Relationship closeness trajectories over time
- → Reciprocity patterns and conversation balance in each friendship
- → Blind spots—patterns others see in you, backed by linguistic evidence
How it works:
Response times, word choices, question frequency, conflict language, and emoji use are mapped to established psychological constructs. Every trait sits on a continuous scale with a confidence range—not a binary label—and traces back to the specific texts behind it.
- 01Your archetype.
- 02The Big Five, from evidence.
- 03Attachment & conflict style.
- 04Your sense of humor.
- 05Strengths & blind spots.
- 06Your closest relationships.
- 07Advice.
A sample of the signals behind your scores.
Big Five Personality Model — McCrae, R. R., & Costa, P. T. (2008). The Five-Factor Model of personality across cultures. In R. W. Robins, R. C. Fraley, & R. F. Krueger (Eds.), Handbook of research methods in personality psychology (pp. 130-146).
Attachment Theory — Bowlby, J. (1988). A secure base: Parent-child attachment and healthy human development. Basic Books.
Conflict Resolution Styles — Thomas, K. W., & Kilmann, R. H. (1974). Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument. CPP, Inc.
Psycholinguistics — Pennebaker, J. W., Boyd, R. L., Jordan, K., & Blackburn, K. (2015). The development and psychometric properties of LIWC2015. University of Texas at Austin.
These frameworks are the foundation for every score.